marcus said it might help to write about things so why not, I guess it can't really hurt apart from the time investments
birthdays
idk about them, really.
like for the most part i find it a hassle, like most of the time you're just one wish of many on a wall of wishes, why bother? usually i message the person directly if i care about that person anyway
so i took mine off from social media, reasoning that the people who cared might remember anyway
i mean i remember ning's birthday (23rd oct) and i know mark's birthday is in the same month as mine, roughly a month after ning's
but why do i feel so annoyed when literally nobody outside of my immediate family/gf remembers except for the one person i talked to about this and one random old friend whom i haven't even talked to for years and yet somehow remembers to wish me once a year
